Men expert in flirting and dating know different ways to ask a girl out. But let us not forget that there also exist shy and introvert men who can fall in love but not ask a girl out.
My male friends often ask me the good ways to ask a girl out and I always tell them, ‘attract the girl’. Why attract a girl? Because just liking a girl will not help you win her. If you really want her to like you and say ‘Yes’ to you, you must first attract her. Once a girl is attracted to you, you can ask her out on her face and she wouldn’t say NO. That’s actually the best way to ask a girl out.
Attraction can happen in a minute or over a period of time. Not every girl will go head over heels for you in a minute. Some need time to know the guy and they gradually get attracted or fall for him. If you ask me the clever way to ask a girl out, I would suggest getting close to her best friend once you know she is attracted to you. Women are good at getting jealous and this may actually increase her attraction for you, making it easier for you to ask her out.
Some men are sweet and playing tricks is not their cup of tea. They will always look for a good way to ask a girl out. Good here means, simple. Such men want to be true and open about their feelings. But it is a fact that girls need to be attracted before you ask them out. So even if you are sweet, simple and a mamma’s boy, you need to work on the attraction part. If you can’t flirt verbally, make some eye contact so that she gets a hint.
Even the dating experts believe that the best way to ask a girl out is to first attract her. But what if she is your friend and you share a wonderful friendship with her, how can you attract a girl? In such cases, asking out a lady is a little risky because of the simple fear of losing out the friendship too.
Basically when you are friends with a girl, you know a little more about her than most of other men. That gives you the advantage of playing your cards well. You know if she has a crush on someone or what kind of a guy she is looking for. If she doesn’t have a crush on anyone, start your game with a little teasing and flirting. The best part about flirting is that even though women know about it, they actually enjoy it and come closer to the guy. Next protect her when you are together in the market or any public place. Hold her hand while crossing the street or while moving through the crowd. Show a little possessiveness and while sitting together make some eye contact. Some late night calls to say ‘I am missing you’ also do wonders. But do not do everything at once. This should be a gradual process. Do all this and she will surely start feeling something for you. Once you are sure of her feelings, you can ask her out in person.
Cool men look for cool ways to ask a girl out. But it should be remembered that whether you go for cool ways or simple ways, attraction will always be the first step towards it. When looking for ways to ask a girl out, never forget that every girl has a dream man she wants to date. If you want to replace that man, it is important for her to know you and fall for you. Only then she will be able to date you.
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