Propose a Girl for Friendship

So you like a girl and want to propose her for friendship? The task is easy because asking a girl for friendship is easier than asking her to be in a relationship with you. But don’t attempt to give her a friendship card because men are expected to be bold. If you go and speak directly to the girl and ask her to become your friend, she will at least appreciate your boldness.

However, don’t become extra bold to approach her while she is in a group. If she rejects you or says no to you, it will be a huge embarrassment for you. So it is better to meet her when she is alone. Also, when girls are with their friends, they like to show-off and never say yes to friendship with any guy.

Even if the girl is alone but the location is such that you cannot talk to her politely, you must drop the whole idea of proposing to her for friendship. The place where you will propose to her is very important. It should not be noisy and crowded. If there are distractions, chances are that the girl wouldn’t pay attention to what you say.

Now when you feel the time is right and the place isn’t that bad, you must approach her. It is a little weird to directly ask a girl for friendship. If she is a complete stranger, why will she say yes to you without knowing you? So it is important to first make her comfortable with you. Let her know you a little and then propose her for friendship.

A good idea to break the ice is to flirt a little with her. Her response will tell you whether she is interested in you or not. Or you can also talk about something general with her. Like, ask her the time, or the route of some restaurant, or what time does a particular bar close down. Such conversations actually break the ice and give you a chance to speak to her.

Now is the time to propose to her. If you know each other little, it will be easier for you to ask her for friendship. Politely ask her if she wants to be friends with you. If she doesn’t give any reply, just say, “It’s okay. You don’t need to take it too seriously. I was just joking.” Wait for her reply. Girls feel guilty when guys say something like this and they come up with their defensive statements. So let her speak. The more you talk to each other, the more are the chances of becoming friends.

Proposing a girl for friendship requires you to be confident and spontaneous. Certain actions require immediate reactions and you must do that when you want to propose to a girl. Have a good sense of humour for a girl to like you. Once the girl likes you, why will she say no to you!

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